How to appear more lesbian without being butch?
Well, now I feel a little strange asking this.
I am a lesbian, yes. Though, being more femme, and with my own style, I tend to come off as straight, so it's hard to let people signal in to the fact that yes, I am gay. Is there a way to appear more lesbian, without being butch? I never feel comfortable being overly butch, and stick to the girl-ier side of things.
Answer:
Wear rainbows.
Seriously though, people with really good gaydar will know you are gay. Other than that, you don't have a lot of options. You should def. be comfortable in your own skin, so don't totally change your style to appear more gay.
I would honestly suggest incorporating something rainbow into your daily wardrobe. Maybe a bracelet? Earrings? Ring? Necklace? Anything like that will do.
If you don't like rainbows, you could get some jewelry with the interlocking women signs instead.
Here's an online place with relatively inexpensive jewelry to give you an idea:
http://www.overtherainbowshop.com/rings.htm
These designs are usually available in most local LGBT centered shops, so hit up your city's gay district.